So, we have ventured into the messy territory of Potty Training.
I had been putting it off for a good while, because every time I tried to encourage Bella to use the potty she would have a major meltdown, so I assumed she wasn't ready. Not to mention that every time I attempted the "Naked" approach, it ended up with a puddle on the floor (or on the bed, or the couch...) and a diaper promptly being put back on her butt. :-P
But, one day when she looked at me and said, "I go pee now," and walked away to pee in her diaper in private, I decided enough was enough. She obviously had the capability, we just had to somehow get her over this Fear of The Potty. So, I filled her up with liquids, shut the two of us in the bathroom with some books and toys and her little potty, and waited.
After one hour, several drawings on the Magna-Doodle, a handful of books read, and a small amount of tears, SUCCESS! She peed on the potty! AND, she seemed really proud of herself afterward, which I took to be a good sign.
We repeated this for several days in a row, until she seemed to be reasonably over the Potty Fear, then started attempting whole mornings running around with no diaper. I was nervous, but it went amazingly well- she had no accidents at all!
The same could not be said for the next step- which was underwear and/or pants with no diaper- she would have an accident every. single. time. she wore them. No biggie though, just cleaned up the mess and tried again. And again. And again. *sigh* After reading the suggestion of a fellow Mommy, I took Bella to the store and let her pick out whatever kind of character underwear she liked (she picked Sesame Street, but Tinkerbell was a close second), and when I put them on her the next morning I told her to try not to pee on Zoe (the 'monster' on that particular pair of undies) because she doesn't like to get peed on. And what do you know, Bella made it to the potty almost all day (!!!)- until dinnertime, when she forgot she had no diaper on and peed all over the chair. As I picked her up to put her in a bath, she said to me, "Oh no, Zoe mad at me, Mommy!" At first I didn't hear the word 'Zoe', so I thought she thought
I was mad at her! I said, "No, of course I'm not mad at you! It was an accident, and accidents happen sometimes," and she said, "No Mommy,
Zoe mad at me!" She thought that Zoe was mad that she peed on her! :-( I assured her that Zoe was not mad, and that she knew it was an accident. So, maybe the whole "Don't Pee On [Character]" approach wasn't the
best way to go about it, but there were no hard feelings in the end, AND we had a day with only one accident, so I'll call it a success.
Today was Day 2 in underwear, and it was definitely a success! She had no accidents all morning, so I decided to just dive right in and brave naptime. Her sheets are in the dryer right now, so obviously that didn't work out so well-
but the rest of the day was accident free, which is AWESOME. Bella was really proud of herself for remembering to use the potty (almost) all weekend long, and even happier when she got to share some of Daddy's cherry-limeade as a reward. :)
Our next step is to conquer naptime and short outings, but I think we'll give her some more time to get used to pottying at home first to build up her confidence. ;-) My goal is to be completely daytime-diaper free by her 3rd birthday, which gives us around 3 months. Given the success of the past couple weeks, I am thinking (knock on wood) it should be a breeze!